When you fell in love for the first time, you don’t think about ending it. But the most unfortunate fact in life sometimes is it becomes quite necessary to end a relationship. If you are not happy in your relationship, then it’s better to move on in your life.
Ending a relationship is not really so easy and is painful as well. There is nothing better way rather than ending a relationship from which you have been hurt a lot to the core. It’s not mandatory to end your relationship with anger and quarrels; you can even end it utmost dignity, kindness as well as humanity.
Here is a checklist which one needs to know prior to ending a relationship-
- Break up face –to-face
Nobody likes to end a relationship, especially for a sensitive person, it becomes very difficult to forget everything and move on. It doesn’t matter how hard the situation is, one has to take up courage to break up a relation face-to-face. Choose your comfortable time and place. If possible, choose a private place. If you are worried about quarrel and violence, then it’s better to take a common friend to both of yours who can console both of you. But don’t ever try to break up either through text messages or e-mails. This is really unfair method.
- Be kind and firm in your decision
For most of the people breaking up is like a slap to face from your loved one. Don’t make the end situation very harsh and mess up with violence. Respond with kindness with your partner, show a note of concern and respect to your partner which once you had and felt for each other. Be firm in your decision, even though your loved partner may try to convince you to be like earlier.
Obviously your partner may not be having any idea about the breakup. Be yourself prepared even for that possibility as well.
- Never blame each other
Obviously, during the break up of a relationship, either the guy/gal will be angry. In such a scenario, blaming your partner is not the right thing; it’s just waste of your precious time and energy. Remember that by blaming each other nobody is going to win. It just keeps you stuck in the current reality.
The fact to be agreed is it really doesn’t matter who is right here and wrong, instead one has to focus on how to move forward in life. Forgiving your loved one and their view of life’s reality will really make you feel free.
- Don’t isolate
When go through breakup obviously it’s not quite easy to forget everything and move on very quickly. To overcome every pain and suffering, it needs certain time. Don’t ever try to be alone during this stage, which can make you feel to call your ex back. So, surround yourself with your loved ones who cares about you. But remember; don’t jump into another relationship so soon.
The above mentioned are some of the essential tips for ending the relationship. By following these, you will just not only able to raise your head but can look for hopeful and positive future as well.